I first met Andrea Nierenberg in 2003, at an Employee ROI breakfast event where she gave a presentation on networking strategies. We kept in touch, and she has been one of womenandbiz.com’s contributors since the beginning. I still remember and practice a few things she talked about at that event, such as:
* When you meet people at a networking event, find out how you can help that person, instead of only talking about yourself.
* Write notes on a pad that you carry – not the back of his or her business card, so you can remember this person and follow up later.
* Do follow up, and no matter what, always send handwritten thank you notes. If that person refers you to someone else, and you do business with her, send a thank you note to the person who originated the contact; people like to know they were helpful and kept in the loop.
* At a networking event, have an exit strategy – when you feel it is time to move on Andrea mentions that you could say that you would like to allow that person to meet more people and to enjoy their evening, day, etc.